The Sabrina Carpenter Eiffel Tower Discourse Explained
Sabrina Carpenter’s Eiffel Tower ‘Juno’ sex position on stage in Paris has created some controversy. Here’s a breakdown.
And a little breakdown of the controversy that has inevitably broken out around it.
By Kayla KibbePublished: Mar 21, 2025 2:00 PM EDT 
Save ArticleThe Eiffel Tower is a threesome sex position in which Partner 1 performs oral sex on Partner 2, while Partner 3 penetrates Partner 1 from behind. In the most classic construction, Partner 1 is on all fours in between Partners 2 and 3, who then high-five and/or clasp their hands together above Partner 1 to create that iconic Eiffel Tower peak. For Partner 1, this experience is also colloquially known as getting “spit-roasted” because—well, you get it.
The position is infamously (and stereotypically) associated with MFM threesomes—aka threesomes in which two men have sex with one woman but do not interact sexually with each other—hence its reputation as a bro-y, male-gazey sex act centered on cis-het male pleasure. In reality, however, an Eiffel Tower situation can happen in any threesome dynamic among people of any and all genders.
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While the most heteronormative version features a woman as the penetrated partner in between two men, anyone of any gender can be in any position with a little creativity. Non-penis-having penetrative partners may use toys or wear strap-ons—although, as sexologist Lilith Foxxpreviously told Cosmo, penetration is not actually required to pull off an Eiffel Tower: “Partners can engage in all oral or manual stimulation (or some combination of it all) and can incorporate toys, BDSM, and kink.”
So despite the position’s bad rap as a porn-brained frat bro’s wet dream, the Eiffel Tower is actually an inclusive sex position with tons of variations that make it accessible for horny group sex enthusiasts of all kinds. Downright wholesome, if you ask me!
Why Are People Mad About the Sabrina Eiffel Tower?
As I mentioned, much of the backlash against the Sabrina tower seems to stem from the misguided stereotype that the Eiffel Tower is a sex position that exclusively benefits men at the expense/degradation of the woman involved. Critics of Sabrina’s (fully clothed, completely PG, btw) nod to the act appear to see the Eiffel Tower as an embodiment of female subjugation for the sake of male pleasure.
However, as many counterpoints to the criticism have noted, this reading not only ignores the gender diversity any given Eiffel Tower can contain but also hinges on a view of female sexuality as something that lacks agency and can only be exploited by men, never actively engaged with in a consensual, enthusiastic manner on a woman’s own terms.
View full post on X View full post on X As sex educator Leanne Yau, creator of the Polyphilia blog, put it in a recent tweet, “A lot of the Sabrina Carpenter Eiffel Tower discourse is just the same tired sex-negative arguments based on the idea that sex can never be something women enjoy but something that happens to them which alters their worth as a person.”
View full post on X While, yes, female sexuality certainly can be (and too often is) exploited, condemning a pop star’s tongue-in-cheek display of a sex position as inherently demeaning only serves to reinforce the misogynistic, patriarchal attitudes toward women and sex that enable that exploitation in the first place.
Which is a long way of saying, why don’t we all just let Sabrina Carpenter Eiffel Tower in peace?
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Most Liked Sex Pose: Top Positions Loved by Couples
Doggy style is often named as the most liked sex pose, with survey data suggesting that 30–40% of people in several large polls list it as their favorite position. This pose is popular because it tends to allow deeper penetration and a more intense physical sensation, while still letting partners keep eye contact or enjoy how the body looks from behind. For many couples, doggy style also feels more casual and spontaneous, which makes it an easy go‑to option during everyday intimacy.
Eiffel Tower Photo Rules: Snap Legally!
Hey there, Eiffel Tower fans! Want to snap that perfect pic without any hassle? Good news: daytime photos are totally free game for personal snaps and social shares, as the structure itself sits in the public domain. For example, grab shots from Champ de Mars or across the Seine with your phone—no permit needed. At night, though, the magic sparkle show changes things. Those twinkling lights are copyrighted art by SETE, so using them in postcards, ads, or stock sales requires their okay and a fee.
Pleasure-Boosting Sex Positions: Quick Data-Driven Guide
1. What positions can increase pleasure Many people report higher pleasure when a sex position improves comfort, control, and stimulation. A large part of “pleasure” comes from staying close to a comfortable angle for longer, because discomfort can reduce arousal. Reviews of sexual health research also show that factors like communication, relaxation, adequate lubrication, and direct stimulation of sensitive areas (like the vulva/clitoris for many women) strongly affect satisfaction. 2. Missionary (with pillows for better angle) Missionary can work very well when you change body angles instead of relying on one flat setup.
Sizzle on the Table: Master the Tabletop Sex Position
The tabletop position is the go-to name for that steamy table sex pose where one partner sits or lies on the edge of a sturdy table at hip height, and the other stands for face-to-face fun. It’s super popular because it mixes deep penetration with intense eye contact—think kitchen counters or dining tables turning into playgrounds. Sources like sex education sites rave about its G-spot magic and easy access.womanandhome+1 You’ll love how simple it is: scoot your bottom partner to the table’s edge, spread their legs or lift them up, then stand between for thrusting control.
Eiffel Tower at Night
La meilleure façon de voir la Tour Eiffel de nuit est de choisir un point de vue clair et ouvert, comme le Trocadéro, le Champ de Mars, le Pont de Bir-Hakeim ou une croisière sur la Seine. Ces lieux donnent chacun une belle vue sur la tour illuminée, et le Trocadéro reste souvent le plus populaire pour une première visite grâce à son grand panorama sur Paris. Le Trocadéro est idéal si vous voulez une vue large et spectaculaire, avec la Tour Eiffel bien en face pour les photos.
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